Not all introverts are as reserved as the world thinks. An introvert draws her energy from internal sources and solitary pursuits such as reading a book or learning a language. On the other hand, an extrovert draws her energy from meeting people.
Clubbing is often a part of travel when you visit the metropolitans around the world. A few modest nations have even better clubbing culture than their bigger counterparts, but it is a tough call for many people to adapt to clubbing.
If you are an introvert who has never visited a club for the fear of indulging too closely with random strangers, you ought to read this guide.
Clear your mind
First things first, you must know that you don’t have to fit into any plaster cast created by the world. You can have your own set of rules and ways to enjoy in a club while others do what they like. A club is a place where you lose your restraints to find yourself. You can be yourself, with the right set of people, or even alone to enjoy clubbing as an introvert. Many hermits swear by clubbing as their favorite past time because what’s better than being in a dark room where no one is supposed to talk for more than ten seconds? Pure paradise, isn’t it?
Choose your club wisely
Since you know that you will find yourself bored to death if you don’t like the music, you need to cherry pick your club carefully. Extroverts would still have ways to entertain themselves when they don’t like the music because they can talk to people for endless hours, but you don’t have any option unless the DJ is great at his job.
The painful cover charges
You must research about your club before paying the cover charges for a worthless club. Do read the online reviews and ask your friends for their first-hand experience. If maximum people give you the positive review, you can go ahead and enjoy your time in the club. You would never want to pay the cover charges for a place where you don’t enjoy your time. After you rent a car, pay for the hotel and so many other things on a holiday, you won’t want to waste any more money on any rubbish thing.
The company of friends
A club is not a great place to get introduced to new people. Even if you meet your friends of friends, the maximum you can do is say Hi and then get indulged in drinking. You won’t even know with whom you sit and force yourself to drink. You should not feel drained out of energy just because you have to entertain new people.
There is a point in life when you don’t want to know the insights of someone else’s life; your own existence is enough to make you feel enlightened and a club is surely not a place where you would want to have such discussions. That is why; it is better to go for clubbing only with your close friends, or at least the maximum number of friends should be the ones that you know already. You should be able to actually enjoy rather than dance and sing just for the sake of it.
Chill with friends before the party
While this may sound too much of an effort to make for you, but chilling out with friends in your comfort zone actually makes up the mood for a party. You can make up a plan to have a get together at your or someone else’s home before you head out to the club. When you are traveling to a new city, you can have a couple of mild drinks in your hotel room that can get you into the party mood. Just one or two drinks get you into the energetic mood and you can loosen up in a cozy environment.
Jump onto the dance floor
You would not like to waste time messing around with people you don’t like. Just enter the club, have a couple of drinks, and reach your destination at the earliest. When you feel tired of dancing, you anyhow will not have any energy left to entertain anyone.
Don’t stay for too long if you don’t enjoy
You don’t have to feel guilty if you don’t enjoy your time in the club; you can leave any moment you want. Give yourself a couple of hours to start enjoying, but don’t wait for too long if the environment doesn’t suit you. There is no point in wasting time when you don’t enjoy.
When you are a hermit, you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone in the world. If you enjoy clubbing in your own way, just do it when you want to whether you are in your city or abroad.
